The First Thing To Do In The Morning

Starting your day right can make a difference in how the rest of your day goes. Having good habits makes it easier to get more accomplished and leads to a happier life.35788676_m

Charles Duhig said in his book “The Power of Habit”, making your bed is a keystone behavior which is something that starts other good habits. He said “making your bed every morning is correlated with better productivity, a greater sense of well-being and stronger skills at sticking with a budget.”

Admiral William McRaven gave a commencement speech at the University of Texas in 2014. He stated that every morning in basic SEAL training his instructors would show up in the barracks room and the first thing they would do is inspect the bed.  If you did it right, the corners would be square, the covers pulled tight, the pillow centered under the headboard and his extra blanket would be folded at the end of the rack. He went on to say “It was a simple task–mundane at best. But every morning we were required to make our bed to perfection.  It seemed a little ridiculous at the time, particularly in light of the fact that we were aspiring to be real warriors, tough battle-hardened SEALS, but the wisdom of this simple act has proven to me many times over.”

Making your bed in the morning is the first task you complete for the day and it gives you an accomplishment to start the day. By doing this first task it puts you on the path for the day to accomplish more tasks during the day.

As Admiral McRaven says, “If you can’t get the little things right, you will never get the big things right. If you want to change the world, start off by making your bed.”

Your action plan for tomorrow is to start the day by making your bed.  Many people have said that starting the day by making their bed has changed their lives.

Be Great!

7 Great Ways to be Grateful and Share It

November is the month we celebrate Thanksgiving in the United States. Thanksgiving means the expression of gratitude, especially to God.43256425_s

This is a great month for expressing your gratitude towards others. Here is a short list of those you can express your gratitude: Your spouse, significant other, people you work with, a mentor, friends, Pastors, Priests, Rabbis, parents, relatives, neighbors, children and God.

Here are 7 ways to express your gratitude towards others:

1) Handwritten Note or Letter. We seem to have gotten away from handwritten notes and letters with the advent of the computer. One thing I have noticed is that people keep handwritten notes and letters. They usually delete electronic notes.

2) Send a Greeting Card. There is just something about getting something snail mail these days.  We are used to getting a bunch of junk mail. The person you send this to will enjoy getting something different in the mail and you will probably make their day.

3) Text or Email. Sometimes just a quick text or email to someone saying you were thinking about them and are thankful for them is a pick me up. 

4) Make a Video or send a picture. Today it is so easy to shoot a quick video on your phone and send it. The other idea is to find a picture of a special time with that person and send it to them with a note.

5) Post on Social Media. Post a quick message letting them know you are grateful for something they did for you.

6) Record an audio message or voice mail. This is easy to do today  with a variety of apps. Record a quick message and make their day. You could even go old school and record the message on a CD.

7) Send Flowers. There used to be a commercial that said “say it with flowers”. Flowers tend to brighten up a room and touch women’s hearts.

Bonus: At Thanksgiving Dinner go around the table and say what and whom you are especially thankful for this year and why.

Have fun sharing your gratitude this month.

Be Great!